You are looking for something different

You are tired of repeating arguments that go nowhere

Not feeling heard and constant miscommunication leaves you drained.

You wonder if you are just roommates. 

As a Relationship Specialist, I focus on creating new and different experiences that start in the therapy room and last outside of it

I provide longer (75 & 90-minute) sessions for couples. Research shows this is best practice & it helps you get to connection more quickly.

I don't give cookie-cutter advice or avoid elephants in the room. I use Evidence-Based models of Emotionally Focused Couples therapy and Gottman Method to get to the root of the pattern.

Move beyond surface-level couples therapy

My client is your relationship.

My goal: To work myself out of a job, because when your relationship grows stronger, you both do.

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My approach to couples therapy is structured and grounded in research-supported methods, including the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). I focus on identifying the patterns that drive disconnection and use evidence-based assessment to understand what keeps your relationship stuck and how to move it forward.

What Does the process look like?

The 
Assessment Phase

We start with a 90-minute deep dive into your relationship.  I want to understand your history and your difficulties.

Between sessions you and your partner take a comprehensive relationship assessment from the Gottman Institute.

We then have two individual sessions (one with each of you). I want to understand YOU because you are part of the relationship.

In the third session, we review your personalized couple’s assessment, brainstorm goals, and I provide my thoughts on what I am seeing.  

the treatment phase 

My goal is to work myself out of a job.
I offer 75 and 90-minutes with couples and partnerships to get you healing faster.

We get to work. We will work to stop your patterns and give you tools to change.

I use the two most widely researched and successful approaches to couples therapy, The Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.

my approach

Assessments (Relationship Checkup & Intake
Skills (Communication, Conflict...)
Homework (If You Want It)

  • Learn to truly listen
  • Express needs and feelings openly, 
  • Avoid toxic habits like criticism or defensiveness. 
  • Learning to embrace differences, find common ground, and work out solutions that suit both partners.

Plus, Gottman's research is world renown, which is why I use his assessment process with every couple I work with.

Gottman Method

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy

Gottman therapy is like a toolbox for couples. It offers practical communication skills and strategies you can use to strengthen your relationship.

Understanding Your Patterns
Focus on Attachment Bond
Enacting New Skills/Dynamic In Session

  • Understand the emotional dance you both do together
  • Explore and learn your patterns
  • Feel heard
  • Gain understanding
  • Learn better expression of your needs and feelings in a way that really connects. 

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is the "Gold Standard" in working with couples with the most evidence based research of any couples focused modality. 

EFT is like a map for couples, it helps you understand the patterns you’re caught in and guides you back to connection:

Frequently Asked Questions

How often do I need to go to couples therapy?

It varies from couple to couple; some opt for weekly sessions, while those preferring 90-minute sessions often schedule bi-weekly. At the beginning of couples therapy, we always start with sessions spaced no more than 14 days apart.

How long does couples therapy last?

My goal? To work myself out of a job! I'm here to dive as deep as you are into what's brought you here. Depending on what we're tackling, therapy usually lasts about 5 to 10 months on average.

How much does couple's therapy cost and do you take insurance?

I am a Green Bottle Method provider, meaning you pick from 3 tiers for a rate that feels good for you.  Visit my services page for more information.

My full standard fee is $200 per 50-minute session. The initial 90-minute intake session is $350, which includes a comprehensive couples assessment. Ongoing 75-minute sessions are $300.

I am a private-pay provider and do not bill insurance. I can provide a superbill upon request for potential reimbursement; however, reimbursement is not guaranteed.

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