I’m not here to just smile and nod...
I’m here to help you actually change what’s not working.

I am laid, back but direct, we’ll have real conversations that actually matter and help you move forward. 

I have dedicated my entire practice to working with couples and I know sitting in silence does not help you change.

I am not afraid to tell you what I see..

I’ll notice patterns, the ones that keep you stuck, and name them in real time, with care and clarity.

Sometimes that means hearing things that sting a little before they help. But that’s where change starts: in the truth, not the comfort zone.
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I’ve dedicated my practice to helping couples find their way back to each other, that’s the work I’m most passionate about and what I’m best at.

I use evidence-based, science-backed approaches including Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method to help you get out of the same painful loops and into a place where you can actually understand what’s happening between you, not just repeat it.

It isn't just "book smarts"
I know personally...

I know how hard it can be to find a therapist who “gets it.” I bring lived experience as someone who is ADHD and connected to queer, polyamorous, and furry communities, alongside my clinical training.

I also have done EFT couples therapy with my own husband, and understand how  life changing this approach can be. 

I get it and that helps me "get" you

licensed in:

Specializations:


AASECT
Certified Sex Therapist
 

AAMFT Clinical Fellow & Ohio TEAMS Co-Leader

Advanced trained in Gottman Method 


Advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
 
  • Externship (2018 & 2026) Core Skills (2019)
  • EFT with Sexual Dynamics (2022)
  • High Escalation (2023) Supervision (Current) 


Specialized training & lived experience
in the dynamics of Consensual Non-Monogamy/Ethical Non-Monogamy 



Specialized training & lived experience in Kink/BDSM Dynamics




Specializations:

licensed in:

Ohio - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist, #F.2000131
State of Ohio Counselor, Social Worker, and Marriage & Family Therapist Board​​

Florida - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist Florida Telehealth Provider, #TPMF171
 Florida Board of Clinical Social Work, Marriage and Family Therapy, and Mental Health Counseling

New Jersey - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #37F100216200
 New Jersey Office of the Attorney General Division of Consumer Affairs

Oregon - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #T2560
Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapists 

my life experiences  help shape who I am as a therapist:

ADHD: I live with ADHD and I know the complexities of Neurodivergent relationships.

Inclusive, Affirming, and Nontraditional: I am queer, nerdy, a convention chair to one of the world's largest furry conventions, and have lived experience in ENM/Poly relationships.

Former Animal Trainer: Animals have taught me more about the power of relationships then any text book. Ask me about April the Kangaroo! 

My interview at midwest furfest 2023 Seen on BBC News & Reuters

Not a Robot: I am not afraid of a curse word. I am far from stuffy. I will speak your language.

Direct: I am an active therapist and very direct in what I am seeing. 

Stopping Those Patterns Is Within Reach

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LET’S GET YOU UNSTUCK

Sarah Newcomer, Marriage and Family Therapist L.L.C © 2025