I don’t just work with relationships, I dedicated my entire practice to them. Here, you’ll get real tools, honest feedback, and space to be fully yourself.
My goal is to to work myself out of a job by giving you the skills to repair and reconnect for good.
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I am laid, back but direct, we’ll have real conversations that actually matter and help you move forward.
I have dedicated my entire practice to working with couples and I know sitting in silence does not help you change.
I’ll notice patterns, the ones that keep you stuck, and name them in real time, with care and clarity.
Sometimes that means hearing things that sting a little before they help. But that’s where change starts: in the truth, not the comfort zone.
I’ve dedicated my practice to helping couples find their way back to each other, that’s the work I’m most passionate about and what I’m best at.
I use evidence-based, science-backed approaches including Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method to help you get out of the same painful loops and into a place where you can actually understand what’s happening between you, not just repeat it.
I know firsthand how hard it can be to find a therapist who “gets it.” I also bring lived experience as someone who is ADHD and connected to queer, polyamorous, and furry communities, alongside my clinical training.
i get it
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
AAMFT Clinical Fellow
Advanced trained in Gottman Method and is listed in the Gottman Referral Network & Gottman Relationship Checkup Provider
Over 100 hours of training in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Completed the Externship, Core Skills, EFT with Sexual Dynamics, High Escalation, and Supervision
Specialized training & lived experience in the dynamics of Consensual Non-Monogamy/Ethical Non-Monogamy
Specialized training & lived experience in Kink/BDSM Dynamics
Level 1 Trained in Relational Life Therapy
Licensed in 4 states:
Ohio - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist, #F.2000131, State of Ohio Counselor, Social Worker, and Marriage & Family Therapist Board
Florida - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist Florida Telehealth Provider, #TPMF171, Florida Board of Clinical Social Work, Marriage and Family Therapy, and Mental Health Counseling
New Jersey - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #37F100216200, New Jersey Office of the Attorney General Division of Consumer Affairs
Oregon - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #T2560, Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapists
Neurodiverse: I live with ADHD and I understand the complexities of Neurodivergent relationships.
Inclusive, Affirming, and Nontraditional: I am queer, nerdy, a convention chair to a furry convention, and have lived experience in ENM/Poly relationships.
Former Animal Trainer: Animals have taught me more about the power of relationships then any text book. Ask me about April the Kangaroo!
My interview at midwest furfest 2023 Seen on BBC News & Reuters
Humorous and Human: I am not afraid of a curse word. I am far from stuffy. I will speak your language.
Direct: I am an active therapist and very direct in what I am seeing.
LET’S GET YOU UNSTUCK
Sarah Newcomer, Marriage and Family Therapist L.L.C © 2025